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kiri kanan atas bawah serba tak kene.

Monday, February 16, 2009 4:23 PM

5.00 pg aku dah bangun arini. mengalahkan orang yg nak pergi menoreh getah. serius? aku rasa mereka bangun sama macam aku. haha.. bajet nak tido balik but macam impossible je sebab aku tido pukul12. impressive tak? takpe kalau tak jawab pun. tak kisah.

aku kejut orang pukul 5.45am. nasib dia terus bangun dan tak memerlukan aku tension di pagi hari yg mungkin membosankan. [dan pada ketika ini, aku rasakan prediction aku tu tepat skali.]

jom imbas kembali ape yg dah aku buat selama 12jam yg lalu. bangun, tgk tv, call org, tgk tv lagi, sms org sambil tgk tv, tgk tv sambil baring, org call, tgk tv lagi, pergi dapur, cari benda makan, makan nasi grg, minum milo, bukak cermin, bukak tingkap, bukak pintu, tutup lampu, hari dah cerah, sambung tgk tv, tv ditengok aku lg, online. [kejadian ini mengambil tempat dr 5am-8.10am. serius, amat menjengkelkan.

dan rutin menonton televisyen disambung, kemudian melayan kerenah anak sedara aku yg mungkin bakal membunuh aku bila aku dah tua dengan diagnosis yg mengatakan aku ada masalah lemah jantung. aku akan mati kene serangan jantung. ok, jangan doa. selisih malaikat 44.

ok, aku layan anak sedara lagi. ikatkan rambutnye. dia tgh buat scene tak nak pergi skola. takde director. dia sendiri nak berlakon tanpa bayaran. haha.. aku terpaksa bergelumang (?) dengan dia semata-mata nak ikatkan rambutnye. 25minit kemudian, aku berjaya! haha.. selama ni kalau dia tak buat scene, tak sampai 10minit sudah siap.. comel macam aku dulu-dulu. hahah..

ok, si abang suruh aku ikut menghantar anaknye dan anak kakak aku. [mungkin ada hikmah aku takde lesen sampai sekarang. kalau tak tentu aku dah jadi driver terhormat sekarang. ppftt.. ] kemudian pergi balai polis, dia ckp takut takde parking, skali, berlambak kot parking. dia turun sendiri.
*fakta rawak: aku dapati polis zaman sekarang begitu efisyen & on time. mengapa? sebab pukul 1 kaunter dah tutup. dan fakta sebenar, masa aku sampai, jam belum pon pukul 1. gila cepat jam balai polis. aku ikut jam menara sultan abdul samad sebab time merdeka, jarum jam itu yg menentukannya. tapi polis ikut jam mane? [ok, dah. aku tak nak kene saman dgn karpal sigh atau kene tangkap dgn CIA. ]

balik rumah, aku makan roti canai. kemudian tgk tv. tu je keje aku. bosan bai.. dan sampai sekarang, aku hanya online.

minah drift to be.

10:36 AM

seriously aku nak try drifting. [chehh.. bawak kereta biasa pon takde lesen lagi.. ada hati.. ] lantak ah. but it's so cool. google sendiri definisi drift bagi mereka yg tak tau.

aku nak sgt2.. rasa macam puas bila drift. you know, when u stress, amik kunci, masok kereta, start enjin, cari spot best, drift all you want. sumpah aku nak buat!

and the best part is, a girl drifting? masih tak popular di malaysia. even drifting itself isn't that popular yet. hhmmph..

sumpah nak duduk dalam ni!

Szántó Nikolett- she's a drifter man! a girl. hmmph..

just wait one fine day man! hahaha..

soalan cepu tembaga.

Sunday, February 15, 2009 8:51 PM

tembaga? apakah?! bukan emas ke yg menjadi pujaan. haha..

ok. i have a soalan. again. apakah? rojak buah campur sayur ke? tak boleh ke cakap question je?

and the question is,
WHAT IS YOUR LOVE DEFINITION?
karangan anda hendaklah sepanjang 350 patah pekataan. apakah? spm? hahaa.. tapi, serius, aku perlukan jawapan.

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sila hantarkan karangan anda ke thira dot rhyme at gmail dot com
apakah?!

orang skudai, JB!

Saturday, February 14, 2009 2:21 AM

hey kamu kat sana tu, aku rindu bangat ok? :)

happy valentine's day atau pun boleh juga dikenali sebagai selamat menyambut hari kasih sayang kat kamu juga taw? <3

2+1 good things in the world.

12:51 AM

here's for my darlings who was born on the 13th feb..

SITI SAFWANAH BINTI ZAINUDDIN YAHYA [1991]

NUR LIYANA BINTI AZMAN [1990]

ok.. anda berdua is old ok?

SAF sayang,

you're finally 18. [wahh.. dah legal untuk buat benda naughty.. :p]

you're a superb friend.

it's great to know you since erm, form 1?

i miss your anime stuff.

i miss going tuition with you.

i miss teasing mr.choo lari bogel with you.

i miss studying with you.
i miss memorizing geography notes with you.

i miss gossiping with you.
i miss your drawings.

i miss your advice.

and what' important is,

i miss you,
&

i love you.

LIYANA honey,

you're like me now. [young inside out, old on the figure.. :D]

you're awesome.

mula-mula kenal konon macam malu-malu, theeeennn.. omg la. :p

it's been 6 great years now and hoping it'll continue till infinity..

i miss gossip-gossip dengan you. [masa form 3.. :p]

i miss studying with you.

i miss seeing you bugging people for money.

i miss hearing about the cheer-cheer stuff.

i miss the time that we spent together.

and i miss you gila-gila la.

i love you too.

takde ape-ape yg hebat.

Wednesday, February 11, 2009 10:55 AM

boredom strikes.
it was just a
normal/plain/ordinary/usual day.
seriously, it sucks.

hanya ingin kau tahu.

Tuesday, February 10, 2009 11:08 PM

RULES:
1. Put your iTunes, MP3, MP4, Windows Media Player, etc. on shuffle.
2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer.
3. YOU MUST WRITE THAT SONG NAME DOWN NO MATTER HOW SILLY IT SOUNDS.
4. Tag 10 friends.
5. Everyone tagged has to do the same thing.
6. Have Fun!

if someone says 'are you okay?' you say?
drama love relationship - babyface
(haha.. sila fikir-fikirkan lah.. )

how would you describe yourself?
one step at a time - jordin sparks
(yes yes.. tak perlu rush..)

what do you like in a girl / guy?
crush - david archuleta
(crush..? salah soalan yer.. )

how do you feel today?
nobody - wondergirls
(hell yeah.. don't know la.. )

what is your life's purpose?
terima kasih cinta - afgan
(no.. not only coz of love ok.. )

what's your motto?
single ladies - beyonce
(weirdo.. )

what do your friends think of you?
knocking on heaven's door - avril lavigne
( do you..? haha.. )

what do your parents think of you?
hurt - christina aguilera
(er.. apakah??!)

what do you think about very often?
miss independent - neyo
( a'ah a'ah.. jadi independent bagus!)

what is 2 + 2?
i hate this part - pussy cat dolls
(hate maths perhaps?)

what do you think of your bestfriend?
just dance - lady gaga
(mereka gila.. so jom lah.. haha.. )

what is your life story?
i wanted you - ina
(err.. what more can i say man... )

what do you want to be when you grow up?
when you look me in the eyes - david archuleta & demi lovato
(er.. apakah? maksudnye nak someone by the side ke? haha.. )

what do you think when you see the person you like?
don't stop the music - rihanna
(uish.. if nampak hottie mana mungkin music itu berhenti.. )

what will you dance to at your wedding?
sampai syurga - faizal tahir
(haha.. semestinya.. )

what will they play at your funeral?
lagu untukmu - meet uncle hussein
(aku dah mati pun nak bagi lagu lagi?)

what is your hobby / interest?
matahari - agnes monica
(tidak sama sekali.. panas ok.. )

what is your biggest fear?
what hurst the most - rascal flatts
( definitely.. )

what is your biggest secret?
t-shirt - shontelle
(takde kene mengene kot??)

what do you want right now?
ayat ayat cinta - rossa
(perlukah..?)

what do you think of your friend?
menjelma - kaer azami
(menjelma tiap kali aku memerlukan anda semua.. haha.. )

what will you post this as?
hanya ingin kau tahu - republic
(haha.. a'ah just to let u ppl know.. ;p )

i need space.

10:51 AM

ish.. pernah tak anda melalui situasi di mana anda mendapat panggilan yg tak dikenali dan pastu marah2?

TEMPER tau? benda ni baru terjadi 5 minit yg lalu.. ada miss call.. seperti biasa. selepas menginjak remaja.. eceh.. no. yg tak dikenali tak akan dilayan. so.. dia antar message.. "awak ni siapa? aritu awak ada call.. siapa?" again aku tak layan ah kan. haha.. bazir kredit kot.. dah ah tak pernah pun kot aku call dia.. selang 7 minit selepas tu, dia call.. adoi.. macam tak paham-paham bahasa. dengan nada malas nak layan aku kata hello..

perempuan/lelaki desperate: awak ni sape??? [eh, melampau betul intonasi.. sabar je ah..]
aku: eh, awak yg call, awak tanya saya siapa?

pap! dia letak. ish.. situasi yg sgt cliche. nak kenal, cakap jelah. tak payah la kata awak call saya aritu la. saya terjumpa no. awak la. tersalah dial la. salah nombor la. tolong ok. tu sume tak boleh pakai dah. sila cari 'story cover line' baru.

last 2 days pun ada jugak. main miss call miss call.. report polis baru tau. then dia call.. awak ni siapa.. dan jawapan stereotype aku sudah tentulah, awak call, awak tanya saya siapa..

laki desperate: oohh.. saya tekan-tekan je no. awak. ni awak dari mane?
aku: dari pj..
laki desperate: ok takpelah. [aku pun letak.]

tak lame lepas tu boleh pulak antar message.. "boleh kenal? nama siapa?" malas kot nak layan. maka dengan itu message itu tergolong dalam message2 yg tak diperlukan.. "deleted"..

ok.. situasi2 nak kenal ni semua dah lama kan. macam2 sebab kita bagi. well, aku pun penah. tapi masa aku sekolah tingkatan 2 je kot. then aku berhenti. tak larat dowh. bazir credit je.. taubatlah. cari sebab musabab baru nak berkenalan. tak pun, be straight to the point sudah.

turned on.

8:29 AM

i love it baby. can we do it more often? bahaha.. takde kene-mengene with my post pon sebenarnye. haha.. love the statement. i swing like you do, baby.. [suara as sexy as possible..]

ok2.. aku nak cakap pasal aku punye opposite gender ni. yup. lelaki. male. jantan. and whatever words yg exist to just call this people yg opposite sex dgn aku ni. aku bukan memilih. just nak let people know. haha.. kamu tak nak tau? tak ape. aku tak kesah pon. 12 things i would like to see in my future soul partner. hahaha..

list lelaki seksi dimataku..

1. sexy gila babi punye voice.
tak tau ah nape tp aku mmg cepat cair dgn org suara dalam nih. :p skali dia ckp, perghh.. tak tau ah. macam sipolan tu. waah.. suara kamu. aku tergoda. biar la rupa ada off sikit [tp kalau nak recommend, baik recommend full package yer] tp suara power. skali dia mengayat, aku mampu tersenyum bagai org gila.

2. accept me for who i am.
and not for what i am. yelah. dlm dunia ni ada macam-macam perangai manusia & right now to be specific-men.

3. can cook.
tak. bukan setakat masak maggi, goreng telur, masak air atau menanak nasi tapi really-really cook. you know the complete dish. yes, bagi aku mereka yg boleh memasak adalah independent & hot! :p so bila aku malas masak, goda dia sikit, bagi menu, dia masak & aku goyang kaki. :)

4. boleh bersilat. [or any other martial art.]
maybe susah nak cari but ooohh.. ini memang sexy. hahaha.. i have nothing much to say about this. tapi best kan ada boyfriend ke suami ke tunang ke yg boleh bersilat. can protect us kan kan kan? ok maybe only me. haha.. diam thira.

5. likes kid. [and know how to manage them.]
you know la lelaki sesetengah macam mane. so i totally respect lelaki yg sukakan kanak-kanak and tidak merasakan kanak-kanak adalah satu bebanan. enjoy being around kids and willing to entertain them. yeah, kaum adam yg begini sangat hot. suami orang tu biasa but for single and and available guy is panas.

6. metrosexual + ubersexual.
aku taknak terangkan maksudnye. google sendiri. haha.. tapi lelaki macam ni aku tabik. they know themselves well. just pada pandangan aku mereka sangat sempurna pada penampilan. it doesn't need branded stuff on to look good. it's the matter of how he put on stuff. don't be surprise if they know more about make up, cleanser etc more than you do!

7. plays the guitar & drum. [other instrument is a bonus.]
tak tau la. but i adore lelaki yg boleh bermain gitar dan dram. :)

8. can hit the floor. haha.. can dance.
because to me tak banyak dah lelaki yg menari besides those who really make dancing as a profession. if you can dance all sorts of tarian as in tradisional and modern, hehe.. saya sangat tergoda.

9. not romantic. [org mula fikir aku gila.]
ye ye semua perempuan suke lelaki yg romantic yg boleh menghadap kamu 24 jam. not me. aku rimas. haha.. tapi kalau tak romantik LANGSUNG akan membuatkan aku turn off. just a dos. or two of sweetness is enough. seriously. i loike.. haha..

10. intelligent.
in ALL aspect. yes.. kene pandai belajar, pandai buat duit sendiri and sebagainye. you know la ape orang intelligent always do kan. yeahh..

11. looks?
last but not least. siapa la yg tak pandang pada paras rupa nowadays but aku tak memilih. if it comes in a whole package then that'a a bonus for me. weehooo..

12. beragama.
takde agama means tak kemane lah. despite whatever ciri-ciri yg telah dinyatakan diatas, agama is the first. maybe a bit cliche or even stereotype but this is what matters kan. but i'll lve it if the guy menjalani hidup modern same macam orang lain. you know, still party-ing but agama tetap kuat. still sembahyang kinda thing. hooyeahh.. memang hottie.

no.12 itu akan membuatkan org chop aku sebagai seorang orang gila. hahaha.. ok. done. kamu tergolong dalam golongan diatas?? sila isi borang.. :)

mengandung 3 bulan!

Monday, February 9, 2009 12:03 AM

aku disahkan mengandung tiga bulan. weyhh.. siapa bapa nya. aku tak tau. aku discover aku mengandung bila penyakit craving for foods aku sangat critical & pertambahan berat badan yang maha melampau. [tapi period aku normal je??]

wahaha.. cuak cuak! ok ok tak kelakar pun. it's just that orang selalu kaitkan mengidam makanan dengan perempuan mengandung. kenapa & mengapa? entah. aku pun takde jawapannya.

post ni just untuk membuat pengumuman bahawa aku sedang mengidam banyak makanan. dan sesetengahnya agak pelik. and no, aku tak mengandung.

ubi kayu rebus yang dimakan dengan kelapa dan gula/sambal ikan bilis.
pergghh.. macam orang dulu-dulu. gila old skool makanan ini. dan pasti ramai anak muda tak biasa makan makanan ni. eceh.. but oh my god.. sangat sedap ok. tambah-tambah jika ubi yg direbus tidak begitu keras atau lembut. yg sedang-sedang aja is the best.

serunding ayam/daging.
dah lama tak makan ini serunding. but not all serunding is nice. sesetengah suka buat manis dan terlampau kering. aku suka yg pedas-pedas, just a lil sweet taste and a lil of moist is fine. bila dimakan dengan roti, tak perlu ingat dunia. hehehe.. the last time aku makan masa aku beli kat terengganu. kat pasar payang. rambang mata dowh nak pilih mane sedap. oh dan, serunding juga boleh disimpan agak lama. nyehehe.. buat stok.

nasi lemak.
i'm lame. tau. thank you. dah lame tak makan nasi lemak la weyh. seriously. segala nasi lemak bungkus yg aku nampak, cair air liur aku. there was this one time where tiap-tiap hari aku makan nasi lemak, dan aku bosan. now, look at me. craving for one. haih.. aku lagi mengidam, nasi lemak sekolah! hahaha.. double lame. but betul. maybe nasi lemak sekolah isn't the best in the world, but the best among schools. and yeah it's nice. sambal lebih. huuu.. jom pergi sekolah anyone? [senyum penuh makna dan harapan.]

cheese cake. [handmade by the sister.]
hoping she'll be reading this. hahaha.. as if. yeah, there's something different about her cheesecake. and it's been ages since she baked one.

sheppard's pie.
oh my god la. bestnye kalau dapat. the taste of the chicken [though it's a sheppard's pie.] is so yummy. the potato yg menyaluti the inti all sedap la. secret recipe have a nice one. so does coffee bean. i think?

well well.. for now, that's about it. i'll tell you guys more la ok.. sipa baik hai, silakan la ok?

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pau.
hehe.. i miss school's bbq pau. lantak la korang nak cakap aku lame ke ape. but so far, that's the best bbq pau i have ever had. hehe.. but too bad, the school isn't selling it anymore. must go find at assunta's hospital cafetaria. hehehe..

begedil. [mashed potato & meat.]
nice-nice.. i know how to do it myself. :)

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nasi dagang.
ok i don't know where's the best one. but i missed it. it's been so long. masa bulan puaa hari tu tak dapat pun make [makan in kelantan's language.] i know in kl ada satu. pasar malam sabtu tu. but i'm not the kind that willing to do anything for food. nyeh nyeh..

nasi kerabu.
nasi kerabu is the blue colour rice ok. sedap. yg paling best is the one i ate masa bulan puasa bazaar ramadhan kelana jaya. omg la. last year tak dapat. nyah mane that makcik pindah. hmm..

laksam.
tatau mane mau cari yg paling best juga. i know kat kampung aku ada. but like gila lama tak balik. huhu.. it's mee is the laksa but the shape macam kuey teow and the kuah/gravy is white in colour. it's like laksa pahang but it's white in colour.

peda. [not sure whether this is the spelling.]
ia merupakan makanan dari pantai timur. pahang, kelantan & terengganu. tapi tak tau exactly which state. it's practically just sayur and bermacam2 daun yg dihiris halus. dimasak with god knows what. i only know one ingredient- BUDU. haha.. i don't eat it mentah as in buat cicah all but at least i eat the cooked one. in english i think it's prawn paste KOT???? haha.. teruknye aku. yeah, anyway, lauk ni pedas la. bila makan dgn nasi panas dan ikan goreng je dah cukup. hhss..

*aku tak tau kenapa obsession makanan aku yg baru ni semuanya dari pantai timur..

hutan paya bakau is not in the list.

Thursday, February 5, 2009 11:59 PM

this past few days have been bad enough for me. i don't need anyone to make it worst though i know each and every day, there will be at least one who will make it worst. without failure i would say. i'm getting sick of it. seriously.

might as well, send me somewhere kan. bagi aku duduk sorang-sorang. or at least dengan dia.

narymy.

2:37 AM

nor ashikin redzuan yee
saya dengan ini ingin meminta maaf secara terbuka kepada anda. seriously la. i'm sorry la k. coz yesterday, when you received the other one, you can laugh after that. and i thought you already got the hint. kan yesterday, i already told you that i wanted to send you also la. then i ckp tak jadi. so today thought you akan berhati-hati la. despite all ayat memujuk tu. but whatever it is la..
i am truly sorry..

tak kelakar.

Wednesday, February 4, 2009 9:00 PM

vs.

you get the message i'm trying to say here?
die or crazy?

yang menjalankan tugas. kamu!

Monday, February 2, 2009 12:24 AM

do you mind shooting me in the head?
using any senjata yg once you fire, hit my head and boom i fell off to the ground and the next second i'm dead.
coz i'd rather die that way, so that i wouldn't have to suffer long before i shut my eye & my heart to stop beating. [this is due to suicidal. be it in any form. you'll suffer baybeh.]
oh please hire a killer that will kill themselves after killing me. [don't seem to remember the right word for it. please let me know if you know.]
oh my god, so many repetition. whatever. i couldn't care less.
yea, with that, kamu akan terlepas daripada dakwaan membunuh dengan niat.
sorry. i really need someone to shoot me in the head. like serious serious tau.
just give me 48 hours to repent.
thank you.
bye.

oklah. serious pada mulut la kan.
just stressed up la.
a'ah aku memang slalu stress ed up pun, kenapa?
ada masalah?
*bayangkan*
you didn't get the respect that you're suppose to get.
kene marah depan-depan orang tak sepatutnye.
always, always kene nagging coz of something you didn't do.
always, always jadi mangsa keadaan.
*berhenti membayangkan*
ape perasaan anda?
nikmat ?
atau keramat? [tak bukan nama tempat keramat tu.]
cuba fikir sendiri.
eh, jangan cuba tapi fikirkanlah.
dah? nanti bagitau.

cara-cara untuk jadi happy macam rachel ray.

Sunday, February 1, 2009 9:23 PM

kenapa rachel ray? sebab dia memang slalu hyper bila mengadap makanan.

[please tell me you've watched rachel ray's show to imagine stuff i'm gonna say. kalau belum pernah, sila google sendiri.]

ok. semua nak hidup happy kan. siape tak nak bai. haha.. ok. ini cara-caranya.

1. lepas habis spm, jangan sambung belajar. tak tak, bukan sebab tak pandai tapi sebab nak relax. kan penat study untuk spm. otak pon need rest ok.

2. jangan kerja juga. kamu kan muda lagi. apasal nak susah-susah kerja. itu semua kerja orang dewasa.

3. sila pastikan juga, rumah kamu tiada sambungan internet dan astro. don't even think of wireless connection jiran-jiran kamu yg tak reti secure-kan connection mereka. tv biasa kan ada. tengok jelah. [aku boleh mati.]

4. jangan selalu keluar jumpa teman. nanti bosan. tak payah jumpa langsung pon takpe. hahaha.. tapi pastikan dalam hati kamu sayang mereka, ok.

5. tidur sepanjang hari. makan. tidur lagi. mandi. tidur lagi. makan. tidur. minum. lagi tidur. ok ok. you get my point. phewwwhh..

ok ok. dah puas marah aku dah? ok aku tau post aku tak kelakar. takpe. tak kisah. selamat mencuba ok? aku dah lalui. so giliran anda pula ok?

bf aku masuk meminang. jealous tak?

7:57 PM

thinking of having another blog. something different from this one. something fresh. something outstanding. something beneficial. something fun. something... ok dah. aku tatau dah something ape. something pedas and mencabar kot?

sumpah title post ni takde kene mengene dgn post aku. buweekk.. apasal? tak puas geli lagi?

reunite.

6:30 PM

i would love to actually make a reunion. anyone with me on this? i mean friends dari primary school. :) seriously. i found atiqah zainal. hehe.. i found farhah and raina. i mean banyak. isn't just great too see all this people after so long.. hurmm.. ok i'm lame. so what?

physics chapter tak ingat form 4.

2:56 AM

4 energy savings bulb=1 normal bulb.

so why the hell u nak bising ah?? bill naik ape nye? wtf btol la..

tersentuh atau menyentuh.

12:37 AM

saya sensitif. kamu sensitif? tahap keberapa? 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 or infinity? you choose. saya sensitif mungkin setakat tahap ke-5 [kira ok la tu dari infinity atau ape-ape >5 kan?]

menjadi orang yg sensitif ada banyak pros and cons. am i right my beautiful readers sekalian? i know i know. i'm right. [perasan gila nak mampos.. hahaha..] anyway, yea. i mean in certain things you do, it's fine to be sensitive tapi what if benda tu tak memerlukan anda merajuk?
fakta sampingan** orang kuat merajuk ni maknanye dia sensitif. ok? that's my point. and it happens to boys jugak ok. sumpah aku benci lelaki sensitif. :p

situasi 1: kawan/saudara/kekasih/extra-extra lain minta bantuan kamu. tetapi malangnya kamu tak dapat membantu dengan alasan yg cukup munasabah pada kamu juga pada beberapa orang lain. dan ketika alasan diberi, ayat yg disusunkan memang ayat paling sopan santun pernah kamu gunakan. sekali tindak balas yg kamu dapat membengangkan kamu. contoh: takpelah kalau tak nak tolong atau sorry la menyusahkan. macam marah je atau alaaa.. tolong la..[padahal reason yg dibagi sama dgn masalah yg dihadapi..] atau taknak tolong cakap jelah. tak yah bagi alasan pulak.

what the hell? kalau bagi alasan pun, salah ke? ape masalahnye sebenarnye? i mean we give reasons yg memang munasabah we can ever give and not only that, it's the fact. not because we create a reason just for the fact that kita tak nak tolong. tapi people doesn't seem to understand. especially people yg macam ni.

situasi 2: kawan/saudara/kekasih/extra-extra lain telah melakukan kesilapan. a big one atau mungkin yg bodoh. bodoh di sini bermakna kesilapan yg sama untuk kali kedua yg akan memakan diri sendiri. kamu sebagai masyarakat/rakyat prihatin/berhati perut/mengambil berat telah menasihati dia. and please take note, this person is younger than you. by right, your advice boleh diterima pakai lah ok. so when kamu dah advice, dia hanya ketawa dan tiba-tiba, dia melarikan diri dr kamu atau tak nak cakap dgn kamu atau menarik muka panjang terhadap kamu macam kamu yg bersalah. and in some cases kamu terus kene maki. [marah pon tanda sensitif ok. takleh trima kritikan.]

ok ok. hidup dia. but like hello. sape nak tgk org yg kita sayang terjebak dgn unnecessary stuff? especially bila kita dah makan garam dulu sebelum dia. mesti kita lebih berpengalaman kan. [ok. tak semua lah. setengah2 je.. ] tapi kenapa tak cakap je depan-depan yg i was wrong and cakap elok-elok la.. [padahal aku tetap betol..and bear in mind, make sure la you study the case properly before menasihatkan org. if you got your point wrong, jgn salahkan org tu merajuk dgn kamu. itu bukan sensitif dah. itu bengang. ] anyway, yeah cakap face to face nicely, so that i know why are you running away from me. instead of laughing and pretending you will listen.

for now, that's the two situaation i can give you. secara meluas. tak fokus only in a relationship or whatsoever. you are most welcome to add more. post je kat comments k. credits kepada kamu semestinya. hehehe.. well.. itu kontranya. kebaikan or kelebihannya?

no situation for this.. but menjadi sensitif, ada kebaikannya tersendiri. in whatever we do memang ada baik buruknya kan. so being sensitive have its benefits ok. you perceive and experience life more deeply. you take in more of what you see, hear, and feel.

a simple one one tapi makna mendalam. think about it.